How to Create a Financial Disaster (Part III of III)

If you’re a first time visitor - welcome!  I encourage you to read this series from the beginning.

As Part II wrapped up, my financial situation was beginning to improve.  Turns out that was to be short-lived.

Step seven - Backslide

I continued to work at that bank for five years,  eventually becoming a “personal banker” and “retail annuity specialist.”  I knew that in order to continue progressing in my career, I needed to finish my BA.  And so, once again, I filled out the FAFSA.  And again, instead of borrowing only what I needed to cover my tuition, I took the whole enchilada.  I figured I could pay it back with all of the money I would be making with the fancy new job I was sure to get with my newly minted degree.

Step eight - Accept a big title in lieu of a big salary

One thing in my career went as planned: I did get a fancy new job as a result of finishing my bachelor’s.  I was recruited to a small, local savings bank that lured me in with a great title: Vice President - Relationship Manager of a de novo branch.  The only catch was that they could only pay me $32,ooo a year.  It was more than had been I making at my current job, but not much. 

Still, I was only 27 and a Vice President!  I couldn’t believe my good fortune.  What I didn’t know at the time that they make EVERYONE at a bank a VP, so the title didn’t do a whole lot aside from look good on a resume.

Step nine - finance a graduate degree

It took me nearly 10 years from  the day I started my BA to finish (five of those years were spent in class, the rest of the time I was saving money and “finding myself”).  Once I was done, I discovered I missed being a student.  I knew that if I wanted to make real money in the financial services industry, I needed a MBA from a school with a stong regional, if not national, reputation.  I considered several programs; everything from the prestigous Chicago GSB to online degrees, and in the end settled on an evening program at a state university known for its finance department.

My work refused to offer graduate tuition reimbursent (which, looking back, forshadowed events to come).  Master’s level coursework doesn’t come cheap, and again I found myself applying for financial aid and maxing out my borrowings so that I could live comfortably.

Step ten - Upgrade your life, not your paycheck 

With the new job and the student loan “income”, I figured I needed a new apartment, so I upgraded to a $450 a month rental near a nature preserve.  A few months after that, I crashed my nearly-paid-for Accord and replaced it with a newer vehicle, which raised my car payment $150 a month.  I wasn’t worried about my increased spending - once I finished my master’s I could easily double my income and afford all of luxuries I was financing. 

Step eleven - Job hop

I was communting 90 miles (one way) to gradschool.  The drive was exhausting and I began to search for work in my field that was closer to class.  Good thing I already had a few irons in the fire, because after just 14 months at my VP job, I was laid off (along with other middle managers).  I was devestated - I had never lost a job in that way before.  In the end, it worked out well because I had already interviewed for a business banking position much closer to school.  I started my new job just two weeks later.  I recieved severence pay from one job and a signing bonus for another - talk about lemonade from lemons! 

The downside: I incurred moving expenses and rent went up to $600 a month.  Also, I wasn’t eligable for tuition reimbursement at my new position until I had been there for 12 months (HR was firm on this).  But that’s what student loans are for, right?

I was in this commercial lending position for just over a year when I met a C-level executive for a major financial services firm at a MBA networking event.  He asked for my card, and a few months later I got a call from a recruiter asking if I was interested in a product job at their firm.  The pay was great, I got a small relocation package, plus a signing bonus. The downside: they needed me to relocate immediately.

Step twelve - Buy too much house

I didn’t have much time to plan the move, but I knew that I was done renting (I had seen the gains people were making in the real estate market and didn’t want to sit on the sidelines any longer).  I gave myself two weeks to find a house.  I settled on a “charming” brick-and-stucco tudor on a quiet street just ten minutes from downtown.  The only problem is that I only had 10% of the $180,000 asking price to put down (and that was with the signing bonus from new job).  I borrowed the rest in a single 5-year ARM with PMI.  I figured that as often as I seem to move, I would need to sell the place before the ARM was up - but that’s another subject for a future post.

Today 

That was 18 months ago.  Here is my current situation: I owe more than $160,000 on my house, I have $17,000 in credit card debt (mostly related to the move - furniture, appliances, remodeling, etc.), I have $60,000+ in student loan debt, and there is $18,400 outstanding on my car (I bought a new, 2006 Honda CRV in December 2005).  I will get more specific about my debt load and payments in future articles. 

To make things even more interesting, I am getting married next year.  Our families have generously offered to donate to the cause, but we’re still going to have to come up with about $6000 to make it happen. 

Will I be able to curtail my spending and live more frugally?  How will I ever get off the credit card payment treadmill?  Will my fiance and I be able to save enough for the wedding?  I hope to answer these and other questions in upcoming posts!

Stumble it!

2 Responses to “How to Create a Financial Disaster (Part III of III)”

  1. Mark Says:

    Hello. I can completely relate to your situation. My wife and I have $40,000 in combined student loans, a $9000 car loan, another car lease of $400 a month, a personal loan of $10,000 (consolidated private student loans), etc. This trouble started when we “maxed out” our student loans instead of just taking what we needed. We took trips, bought “stuff”, etc. with the money, and now we are loaded with payments that are killing us financially. I am forced to take a higher paying job that I don’t like just to get ahead.

    Great story so far, I will definitely keep up with your blog and you progress.

  2. Amanda (Me vs Debt) Says:

    This is a great post (series). Although my story is much different I can definitely relate to what you’re feeling right now. Best wishes, Banker Girl.

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