Always a Bridesmaid (& Also a Bride)

This is the fourth article in my series: BankerGirl Plans a Wedding - a honest account of my wedding decisions and related expenses as they occur.  New readers can click here to start the series from the beginning. 
Few wedding-related topics get a woman a fired up as a discussion about bridesmaids’ dresses.   They are typically expensive, unflattering, and […]

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What Would You Do With 48 Hours?

My fiancé is enjoying a bachelor party “fishing” trip this weekend (fishing is in quotes because I am pretty sure he didn’t pack a fishing pole).  Right about now I imagine he is drinking homebrew and smoking cigars while sitting around the campfire with his closest friends.  That’s his version of heaven and I couldn’t […]

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Brides are Tightening Purse Strings

As a future bride, I found this AP article on msnbc.com to be of great interest.  Not because of what it says about the economy, (looks like we’re experiencing more than just a period of “economic tightening” if even recession-proof industries are feeling the effects), but what it says about the costs of an “average” […]

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Would You Hire this Woman to Cater Your Wedding?

This is the third article in my series: BankerGirl Plans a Wedding - a honest account of my wedding decisions and related expenses as they occur.  New readers can click here to start the series from the beginning. 
Today I had hoped to publish a post celebrating the fact that we finally confirmed a wedding caterer. 
This is […]

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Weddings and the Psychology of Spending

This is the second article in my series: BankerGirl Plans a Wedding - an honest account of my wedding decisions and the related expenses as they occur.  You can find the first article of the series here.
My partner and I were engaged a year ago today.  When people ask me how the wedding plans are […]

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Happiness Is Having Real Money in Savings

Five years ago, I was a personal banker at a regional bank, making about $28,000 per year.   According to my historical financial records (I have been tracking my income, savings, and spending in Excel since 2000), I had about $3000 in savings at that time.  When I wasn’t making much money, I seldom used credit […]

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Our Wedding - Elements of Lavish Meet Pieces of Frugal

This is the first article in my series BankerGirl Plans a Wedding - an honest account of my wedding decisions and the related expenses as they occur.
My fiancé and I are going to spend entirely too much on our wedding, and I have a lot of guilt about it.  I haven’t written about my wedding budget […]

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